tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-73722432768070989892024-03-13T03:10:09.776-07:00No Holes Barred!Keeping my eye on the prize!Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.comBlogger83125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-72508033984604291072009-10-07T03:34:00.001-07:002009-10-07T03:34:21.946-07:00How did this happen?How did I let my emotions become so completely intertwined with food???<br /><br />More importantly, how do I stop it?<br /><br />It probably happened slowly, over time, without me even noticing it. I mean, it's food! It's alive, but it doesn't have a soul. It shouldn't have this kind of power over me. It literally can determine whether I have a bad day or a good day. Feel good or feel guilty. I'm either a bad person because of what I eat or a good person because of what I didn't eat. I mean, it's food! It has one purpose in life - to nourish our bodies. And yet for me, it has become so much more than that. How did this happen? Why did this happen? But what really stumps me is how to stop it. I am at a complete loss as to figure that out. There have been so many times I think I'm on the right track, but there's something that holds me back, prevents me from moving forward. I make a few wrong choices and my emotions head south and I just want to eat more to cover up those emotions. It has to stop, I just don't know how.Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-27947107736814801922009-10-06T06:28:00.000-07:002009-10-06T06:32:05.885-07:00No titleWhat a morning. I hate McDonalds. I hate that I go there and eat their food. I hate that I feel the way I do. I hate that I feel bigger and bigger every day. I hate it. I hate my actions. I hate my inactions. I hate that I just took out my fall/winter clothes and they are too small. I hate that these pants are too tight for me and I feel so uncomfortable. I hate that I am alone. I hate that I feel bloated from the breakfast I ate this morning. I hate that other people have found someone special and that I don't have anyone right now. I hate that I'm stuck. I hate this. I hate the wall. I hate that I feel powerless to do anything about it. I hate it. I hate that the scale stays in the 290's which is higher than I've ever been before in my life. I hate that I have so many wonderful people to support me and yet I feel as though I let them down time and time again because as bad as I want it, I have been unable to do it. I hate feeling guilty. I hate feeling depressed about all of this. I hate my weaknesses. I hate my lack of control. I hate feeling different. I hate feeling like an outsider. I hate not being able to do things anymore because I'm too flippin obese. I hate my lack of discipline. I hate not knowing how to overcome this. I hate knowing what to do and yet not doing it. I hate it.Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-19008325639980715662009-03-20T07:15:00.000-07:002009-03-20T07:30:12.386-07:00Looking up againI keep meaning to write more often, but it seems as though life just keeps getting busier and busier. Last weekend I spent an amazing weekend in Arizona visiting my family and having a great time enjoying the weather. I love going out there to visit...surrounded by people I love and people who love me...and a nice warm sun in March :)<br /><br />Things are doing better on the emotional side as well. It's the same old familiar cycle of doing good, then for some reason sinking down and eventually coming back up again. It's kinda scary on those times I sink down and I just get so tired of struggling all the time just to maintain and not gain, not to mention trying to actually lose the weight. I've been focusing on the problems I have at school and things I need to do and instead of continuing to moan about them, I'm concentrating on doing it better. It's such a load though, I could really use someone to help me out on a regular basis and take some of the responsibility of being treasurer. It's a volunteer position and is at least a part time job...unfortunately it's one that doesn't pay. I have some other responsibilities in addition to just wanting to spend some time with my family once in a while and relax so I don't burn myself out. Ahh...the joys of being an adult I guess.<br /><br />My focus this month is to get away from the fast food as much as possible and once in a while have a planned indulgence instead of constant junk food. My exercise is up as I really, really want to be in training for the 3 day walk for breast cancer. We are planning some events coming up to have some fun and raise money for the walk. My hope is that if everyone I come into contact with, who sees my message will donate at least $5, my goal should be reached in no time at all! But it can't be done without the help of many, many people! I know that we can make a difference!Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-90459853075874053272009-03-06T07:43:00.000-08:002009-03-06T07:53:10.943-08:00The bottom of the barrelSeems my mood goes in these cycles...I'm going good on the way I want to be going and then I get off track, spiral down until I hit bottom and then start to climb back out again. I know that struggles are supposed to make you stronger, but this is really starting to wear on me. I totally hit bottom the other day (but it did include a 2 mile walk), then found out my friend's baby died during childbirth and that was it. Ate a dinner from Wendy's that was enough for at least 3 people and went to bed the worst I've felt in a long time. The next day, I couldn't hide how I was feeling for a million bucks. I know my students were totally puzzled about my attitude, but I really couldnt' fake it anymore. By midday, I had recieved a gift on my desk from one of my parents (it was Teacher Appreciation Day) and she gave me a new scarf and it was that one simple gift (she knew I just started buying scarves) that put a smile on my face again and I could feel the duldroms lifting again. I still have so much to do and it seems like I have no time to do it, but things seem a little better now and my students are happy that their teacher seems like herself again. And so am I. I'm not back to normal, but I'm getting there again. I stepped on the scale and I had gained 10 lbs. Now, I know some of that was water, but some wasn't, I've been eating horribly. But this morning I was back out of the 280's to 279 again, and that helped. Most of the hopelessness I felt is gone again, but I know some of it still lingers. I've really been thinking lately about getting some professional help, but I'm not sure where to go or who to go to. I'm not sure what I'm going to do, but I need to make some changes.Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-24999088177192035202009-03-02T06:00:00.000-08:002009-03-02T06:13:22.348-08:00What a weekend!It was crazy, it was full and I am thankful that it did not seem to go too fast! Friday night I had some friends and family come over (including my adorable 9 month old nephew!) and help me move some things around in order to get ready for my new roomate to move in. Included in the crowd was my cousin Mel who was starting her spring break and her boyfriend from Germany, who turned out to be a really great guy! Fun, witty, great sense of humor and not too bad on the eyes! We ended up leaving my house and going to my sister's and didn't get to bed until around 2. They left early the next morning for the drive to her parents house in Maryland.<br />Saturday was more cleaning and more moving in getting ready for the roommate...as was Sunday. Sunday evening she brought over her first load of stuff and my friend R stopped by for a while. After she brought over her second load of stuff (including 3 cats!), we all went out to find something to eat and stayed out 'til about 12:30. We found a local bar that has pretty good food and a DJ that was playing some awesome music (who tried to get my new roommate to go home with him! LOL) <br />So here I am...Monday morning and back at school..but this time I get to be in my pajamas! It's Lutheran school's week and sort of a spirit week for us including PJ day, sports day, crazy hair day and red white and blue day. One of the days is also teacher appreciation day and we get a special lunch from Olive Garden or someplace nice like that. We do a student appreciation day too where we get a half day of school and let the kids go rollerskating at the local rollerskating rink. <br /><br />This also starts week 2 of the training for the 3 day walk for breast cancer. I didn't do too well on the walking last week, but a little is better than none and my goal for this week is to do more than last week and keep building it up. Hopefully we'll have some nice days so I can go outside and walk.Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-16952724783547239642009-02-27T07:32:00.000-08:002009-02-27T07:39:15.656-08:00Week one is not over yet...still trainingOK, because of the rain last night, I did not go out and walk. With everything else going on this week, it's hard to find the time as well, but I did get one mile on my gazelle. I know it's not the same as actual walking, but it felt good anyway. Today is supposed to be cross training, so I'm going to move furniture around in preparation of my friend moving in with me. Some friends and family are coming over to help me with the heavy stuff and I'm getting them pizza for their efforts and time. This weekend the training consists of walking 3 miles both Saturday and Sunday. It's going to be a bit chilly, but no precipitation forcasted, so I will bundle up and hit the walking trail both days to get my time in. <br /><br />I'm still trying to get in touch with the guy who railroaded me Monday night. Every night I try and call him and I freak out! I get so upset, I want no contact with him at all, but there's no getting around it, I have to do it. I will take care of it this weekend, one way or the other and stop being so silly about it.Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-19984422889815432872009-02-26T06:26:00.000-08:002009-02-26T06:34:01.289-08:00Training week one continuesWhat a week this has been...what a rare mood I'm in...and I'm not in love either :P It's been a crazy week of school, work, training, and my friend moving in. And it hasn't had a good effect on my eating either. Just last night, I freaked out because I have to get some information to someone about treasurer stuff. A person who completely humiliated me at our meeting Monday night. Instead of just dealing with talking to him, I went through the drive through at Wendy's, got enough food for about 2-3 people and stuffed my face when I got home. Fell asleep on the couch at 8:30. I have to talk to him, but I'm so upset by what happened, I'm finding it very difficult. Now that I have a better understanding of how I am feeling (last night I was tired and not thinking much at all), I will be ready to talk to him tonight and fend off any distractions and just get the whole unpleasant experience over and done with.<br /><br />The working out part has been good though. I borrowed my sister's Wii Fit to see if I wanted to invest in one myself and have been getting about 10 min a day on it and because it was so nice last night, I did a 1.2 mile walk around the neighborhood, in addition to a little time on my Gazelle. Tonight will be rain so I will be on my Gazelle - hopefully for a longer time this time, and getting the house ready for my friend to move in this weekend.<br /><br />Well, I hear my students coming, so I better get going. Peace out.Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-68452812102016230802009-02-24T06:13:00.001-08:002009-02-24T06:23:01.222-08:00Training...week 1In 24 short weeks, my team and I will be walking in the 3 day walk for breast cancer. This first week, I will need to be walking. They recommend 4 days of 3 miles each day, but I know I'm not ready to do that. they also recommend some cross training one of the days, which isn't a big deal. <br /><br />The food still is not where I want it to be (aka I had BK for breakfast this morning). Classic case of horrible meeting last night and I let it carry over to my choice for breakfast this morning. I will not let the rest of the day be dictated by my emotions...that is my goal for today.<br /><br />Right now I'm just trying to take my mind off the meeting last night and concentrate on the day ahead and lesson plans. I'm about ready to give up my position as treasurer of my congregation because I don't think I'm the right person for the job anymore. I just can't handle all the work in addition to just regular life stuff. We'll see. I'll be praying.Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-59678951304677148852009-02-04T10:47:00.000-08:002009-02-04T10:55:06.894-08:00A poemit doesn't have a name, hence the lame title of the blog...lol<br /><br /><br />Reaching, <br />Reaching.<br />Deep down inside of me<br />Further than I ever have before.<br />Down through my head.<br />Past my brain thinking destructive, but sometimes good, thoughts.<br />Past my throat stuffed with food and cold water.<br />Past my heart, beating strong and working hard to keep this large body alive<br />Past my lungs breathing hard as I go up the stairs.<br />Past my stomach, growling in frustration and quivering with anxiety.<br />Off to the right I see a very faint glow and I know that’s where it is.<br />As I turn toward the glow, I see that the way is blocked.<br />Globs of fat and tentacles of fear start to grab at me as I try to get closer to my destination.<br />Holding me, digging in, begging me to stop now and turn away.<br />I keep going.<br />The faint glow grows brighter until I can finally see the object settled snuggly in the wall of fat, barely visible.<br />It is bright, but doesn’t hurt my eyes.<br />It is not very large either, only the size of a stone.<br />I stand there gazing at it longingly with the tentacles of fear holding me tight in place.<br />So close, yet unable to reach for it, right in front of me.<br />Slowly, I start to raise my arm, struggling against my restraints.<br />Feeling my movement, the fear digs in more and holds fast to me.<br />But it is no match for me now.<br />I reach out and carefully pull the stone out of its resting place.<br />There was but one word etched on the stone.<br />Determination.<br />Even though it was cool to the touch, I could feel a warmth starting to spread throughout my body.<br />It calmed the anxiety and quieted the destructive thoughts, one by one. <br />It urged my arms and legs to move forward.<br />It opened my eyes to the path in front of me.<br />It destroyed the unfound fears that used to suffocate me.<br />And as the determination grew inside me, two more stones appeared: purpose and peace.<br />I knew what was before me and I was ready to face it.<br />I could move forward and achieve those things which in the past had eluded me.<br />I was ready.<br />I was determined.<br />I had purpose.<br />I have peace.Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-50829881174777022272009-02-02T08:36:00.000-08:002009-02-02T08:57:05.141-08:00No more JanuaryJanuary was not a good month. It was very stressful and I am glad it is over. It did end on a good note though: I am back to 15lbs lost from my highest in September. I know I haven't been blogging, but I haven't been journaling either, but I am hoping to get back to both. It really helps with things. <br /><br />An update from the last month: <br /><br />Work/school has been very stressful. My position as treasurer of my congregation hasn't been going well. Not to mention, we don't have enough money coming in to cover all the expenses and there is serious talk of closing the school. We are in debt and last year we were not able to meet expenses...a number as big as our debt. I enjoy working here, but I've been having issues with some people around here as well and it hasn't made for a good work environment. The only shining part is my students. I have the best behaved students this year and teaching them has been a joy! Now that W2s are done, its time to start concentrating on getting the yearbook done. We also have our social studies fair and open house tomorrow night...praying for new students for next year....<br /><br />Working out/eating hasn't been too bad. I did not reach a personal goal of walking on my gazelle for 10 min everyday, but I am still aspiring to it. I've also made a goal for February: Fast food free! I've been wasting so many calories and money to those places lately, it's time to cut it out for a while. I also got a Wii...maybe going to get a Wii Fit to get some workouts in and track my progress. This past weekend has had some mini binges...not gorging myself, but eating beyond what is necessary. My anxiety is up but I think it's because of everything at school and dealing with my own demons.<br /><br />I just recently read this book over the weekend by a psychiatrist who specializes in helping people overcome eating disorders. Among other things he uses mental imagry to help his patients overcome certain obstacles in their eating patterns. It has really got me thinking this weekend about the reasons I eat and the fears that are keeping me fat. I think that is also what has my anxiety up this weekend. Getting past those fears might take some work, possibly by a professional. <br /><br />I will go more into those later, but for now, it's time to teach. Hope everyone has a good monday :)Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-52756009570553908112009-01-08T08:44:00.000-08:002009-01-08T08:52:32.966-08:00Bathroom exercisesI just joined a new group on <a href="http://www.sparkpeople.com">Sparkpeople</a> and read a thread about bathroom exercises and I thought, what a great idea! With all the water I'm drinking, I am in the bathroom constantly. The idea is that when you take a trip to the bathroom, use it as an opportunity to get a little strength exercise in: wall pushups, squats, lunges, etc. We have a small bathroom here at school, so lunges are def out, and it's one bathroom shared with 7 other faculty and staff members, so I have to be careful how much time I spend in there, but there's enough time to do some wall push ups both times I've been in there so far today. I tried some squats and did about 10 of them, but the knee did not like that at all, but I will keep trying anyway. I just thought of this too...I can put the free weights I have in the bathroom and get some sets of bicep curls or something while at home. Does anyone else do this? What kind of exercises do you do?Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-67474428578372748442009-01-07T11:21:00.000-08:002009-01-07T11:41:31.087-08:00ConfessionThey say it's good for the soul, right?<br /><br />After I got home from school yesterday afternoon, I had...well, the only word I can think of is fiasco. I won't go into details, but pop tarts and a half bag of doritos was involved, so you get the picture. I haven't eaten like that in a while...even now it's making me feel nervous just writing about it. I've kinda gotten away from blogging because, like everything else, I was comparing my blog to others that were written better, etc and seeing myself fall short of everyone else. There's no reason I should compare myself to others nor let myself feel less than they are because I can't write as engaging as they can. I do my thing and that's that. <br /><br />I decided that, at least for a while, I am going to make this a food diary of sorts to make myself accountable for what I'm eating and the work I'm doing. I have no one to be accountable to but myself and showing it off to the world (who choose to look) will help me be more honest and careful about what I put into my mouth. (on a side note, I did a search one time for "No holes barred" and I was actually like 5th on the list! crazy!)<br /><br />In addition, having gotten away from moving around and getting any form of exercise, for the month of January, my goal is 300 min of exercise. Namely, walking on my gazelle. that averages to about 10 minutes per day. Seriously, who doesn't have 10 minutes a day? To bring us up to date, I have done exactly 20 minutes so far, so i have some catching up to do. <br /><br />So, to start my food diary..here are my transgressions from yesterday:<br /><br />Breakfast: smoothie with 1 c skim milk and protein powder<br /><br />Snack: 2 pop tarts<br /><br />Lunch: PB and J Sandwich, aprox 10 crackers with cheese and salami, small salad, doritos, milk<br /><br />Snack: granola bar<br /><br />Snack: 2 pop tarts, a lot of doritos<br /><br />Dinner: 7 sweedish meatballs, 1/4 c corn and 1 c. double baked potatoes, 2 grands biscuits, skim milk<br /><br />Snack: mug of hot chocolate<br /><br />It's a mind thing...out of the emotional and into the rational. Taking my time and concentrating...keeping my focus on the right things.Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-52228541534867276742008-12-25T09:20:00.000-08:002008-12-25T09:32:43.917-08:00Merry ChristmasWe celebrated Christmas here at my house for the first time last night and it was wonderful. It was our first Christmas with out dad, so I think that's why mom suggested having it here at my house (that, and I know she doesn't want to deal with the mess afterward!) On Christmas Eve we get together to open gifts and have an appetizer smorgasbord. As anyone knows, appetizers are one of my biggest downfalls and we had some gooood stuff last night! Although, we did decide not to go with any chips and dips this year, we had other stuff in it's place! Since it was Christmas, I didn't want any bad moods to disturb my good cheer and lay off myself and enjoyed it thoroughly. I ate whatever I wanted and I'm so happy to say that my "eat whatever I want" is of much more normal proportions these days! The last week or so, I've still been hovering around the 15lb loss mark, which is ok by me. Now that my knee is on the better side of things, it's time to get back to my gazelle again. I have 2 wonderful weeks off to enjoy myself, "walk" and fix up my office/guest bedroom. I hope everyone has a wonderful holiday.Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-33328591693960518462008-12-15T11:05:00.000-08:002008-12-15T11:25:32.469-08:00MondayWhat a crazy weekend here! Saturday I had two Christmas parties to go to. One was the faculty Christmas party at our school secretary's house (it's a small staff), and then I left that a little early to head down to our bowling Christmas party. Had a great time at both parties with good food, friends and family. Sunday I was up at 6 to finish a partylite order (I'm a consultant), go to my mom's church for 8:00 service because her choir was singing a Christmas contata, go to my church for 11:00 service because the students were singing. In the afternoon I headed to a friend's house for a surprise graduation party for my best friend who has graduated from college. I left there to go to my mom's house where we were driving up to go to another Christmas concert at another church. Everything was great and I'm glad I did it all, but man am I tired today! My eating went well during all the parties as well, so I'm glad about that. Christmas Eve is going to be at my house this year with lots of appetizers and good stuff to eat which is my downfall...I love appetizer type food and it's harder to keep track of that than like a regular sit down meal.<br /><br />This week was supposed to start off with a meeting tonight and one tomorrow, but luckily the one tonight was canceled so I can go home and do a load of laundry so that I have clothes to wear for the rest of the week. After that it's just getting things finished up here at school before break, and cleaning my house so people can come over next week. I also made a deal with my friend to keep ourselves accountable from now on. So far it worked, I got my butt moving again on the Gazelle for 10 min every day. My knee was even protesting that, so I couldn't do more, but it's feeling a bit better today, so I'm hoping for 15 or 20 minutes. It feels good to get my butt moving again, I don't know what's wrong with me that I can't keep it up once I get started.Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-88012047898523766232008-12-08T18:36:00.000-08:002008-12-08T18:47:42.192-08:00Dusting myself offOK, so the last 2 weeks were kinda hellish. I sunk down into this depression that scared even me. I didn't care about anything, I was stressed about work, I was binging, nothing mattered. My eyes definitely were off my prize and it showed.<br /><br />Once again, I am coming back up and out of it and ready to go again. I was home sick from school on Friday due to a 24 hour flu bug and I watched a show called <a href="http://www.thedoctorstv.com">The Doctors</a> where they were talking about the 4 F's that women fear the most: Fatigue, Forgetfulness, Fifty and Fat. What intrigued me was a site they talked about called <a href="http://www.weightview.com">Weightview</a>.<br />I submitted this picture:<br /><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi0pC0KBq-y93iDriF3-WwPJ17Ibtnms-n0JyY0kjxE29fn2VrJADUnL3q8HX9GS1EHjcmpN2Z-SkaDzOZoovPkhbObgroCaNZa_ASNvI4oksmCeIr4fVxsfCCwntjX5v47OgGnDJKzNJdt/s1600-h/me+indy.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi0pC0KBq-y93iDriF3-WwPJ17Ibtnms-n0JyY0kjxE29fn2VrJADUnL3q8HX9GS1EHjcmpN2Z-SkaDzOZoovPkhbObgroCaNZa_ASNvI4oksmCeIr4fVxsfCCwntjX5v47OgGnDJKzNJdt/s320/me+indy.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277614975730698370" /></a><br /><br /><br />And this is what they did to me:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPqcqy55NUYM8IEl5Sl933neObbGnbuWys6WFmtYNOz9u8rJt8t0m0izEJUyBjUfP1zHyy6g2NonCYwYGIAP-ukYbrId5MadNKJAI4yOTRUnECOcU4JRf64x9FZzsdW7dIQxsXQ2S32_2U/s1600-h/50+lighter.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPqcqy55NUYM8IEl5Sl933neObbGnbuWys6WFmtYNOz9u8rJt8t0m0izEJUyBjUfP1zHyy6g2NonCYwYGIAP-ukYbrId5MadNKJAI4yOTRUnECOcU4JRf64x9FZzsdW7dIQxsXQ2S32_2U/s320/50+lighter.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277615201458102530" /></a><br /><br /><br />Wow! Do I look healthy!! I look like I can do all the things I really want to do! I don't know that many people find this inspiring, but I do! This hasn't been an easy road and it'll continue to be rocky (I'm definitely a tortoise!) Even though I have down times, I know I can do this and I can look like this person and do all the tennis, rollerblading, hiking, whatever I want and that feels amazing!Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-71822321738964231252008-11-29T09:33:00.000-08:002008-11-29T09:42:18.810-08:00Post ThanksgivingI'm finding it very hard lately to not be negative, so I will try and keep this short. I don't like focusing so much on the negative, but something seems to have taken over me lately. I'm not myself. I'm frustrated by these cycles I seem to keep putting myself through. Things are going well...food intake is good, a little exercise, lots of water...then sliiiiide down. It's not a fast slide, but a slow one until I seem to hit bottom before gaining the strength to dig my feet in and start climbing back to the top. Luckily, this part of the cycle is shorter in length than they used to be, but they are still there. How do you do it? How can I get to the point where I don't have this part of my life anymore? Why do I still find it so hard to get back to my feet? Why do I have to fall so far before my brain says "Hey! stop doing that now!"? <br /><br />Sorry, like I said, I'm not myself. I was feeling good with that 15 lb loss..but it seemed like it didn't phase anyone and once again, I let others get to me instead of just relying on myself and enjoying this victory to keep going. <br /><br />I know that other stresses in my life are contributing to this and I can't do anything about those except pray on it and work on not letting it get to me so much because some of it, there's nothing I can do about it, so I just need to keep going and do the best job I can. Wow, talk about a run on sentence....<br /><br />Happy Thanksgiving!Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-28861357700433082732008-11-21T10:46:00.000-08:002008-11-21T10:54:59.915-08:00In the classroomI do love teaching PreK and K...they come up with the funnies things sometimes.<br /><br />We were in the basement today in the computer lab and one of my 4 year olds (a little pixie of a girl) needed to use the bathroom down there. So, I walked her over to the bathroom and waited for her (we have one in our class that she's used to using). <br /><br />After several moments in which i can hear her in the stall:<br />E: I must be constipated, because I can't go to the bathroom right now (the only 4 year old I know who knows the word constipated)<br /><br />she hops off the toilet and I hear as she's getting her clothes settled:<br />E: I really have to pay attention to all these clothes my mom put on me today<br /><br />Me: so you can stay warm today?<br /><br />E: yeah<br /><br /><br /><br />And one of my Kindergartners told me the other day while we were talking about juice "I don't like juice much, I just can't get excited about it." <br /><br />Have a great weekend!Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-62404938300097032872008-11-20T06:03:00.000-08:002008-11-20T06:12:39.353-08:00Doing a little happy danceBut just a little one. :) It goes back to the whole emotions playing a role in my weight loss or gain as the case may be. To be sure, I am happy for another week gone well. :) :) I have found though, that with feeling really (really, really) bad about weight gain, feeling really (really, really) good about loss can be just has detrimental to my efforts. Keeping an even keel, keeping my head about me and continue to do make the changes I have been making is one of the final pieces of this puzzle called "how do I lose weight". <br /><br />If you didn't notice the pretty button at the top from <a href="http://scalejunkie.com">Scale Junkie</a> I am now at a lovely 15 lb loss. :) One friend mentioned this weekend that she can see a difference, but I haven't noticed one really yet except for one: the 3x T- shirt I wore for bowling on Saturday no longer "caught" around my hips...but slid smoothly down over them completely. In a little while, I believe I'll be back comfortably in my 2x shirts. (who'd a thunk I'd ever be happy saying that statement??) <br /><br />I am heading out of town this weekend. Lots of ops to throw in the towel..but always in the back of my head I remember that the same metabolism that is able to lose so quickly in the beginning is responsible for gaining it all back just as quickly if I go too far off plan.Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-23305441915292535782008-11-17T19:48:00.000-08:002008-11-17T19:59:08.217-08:00Starting another week and HYCAnother long week is upon me. Every night this week and the weekend are occupied with some sort of plan or another. While I do enjoy the time going by quickly, it doesn't leave much time to catch my breath. <br /><br />Update on goals for November:<br />Still have had no chips for this month even though ops have presented themselves!<br />I don't seem to be on track for the 20 days of working out, but I have a calendar on my vision board and I'm pleased with how many days I've colored in as having worked out :) <br />I'm still 13 lbs lighter than when September started!!!<br /><br />Overall, I am pleased with how things are progressing. I have stresses in my life and yet I am not as tempted to turn to food and my eating has kept on pace with what I want. I've even gone off plan a couple of times, but they haven't turned into downslides. I am grateful that this path is ahead of me and I continue walking it. The thing that feels different this time is that it's not a euphoria that's keeping me going. I feel very even keeled, keeping my head and wits about me and I think that better equips me when bumps come along, I can take them in better stride. <br /><br />I think my major theme this year has been "follow through". There are many areas of my life that I just have not put my full energy into and not following through on things that I say I'm going to do. This includes my job, my position as Treasurer at church, losing weight, etc. It feel much better when I do take care of these things. Weights I didn't know I was carrying seem to be lifted each time even a small task is accomplished that I have let go or not followed through to the end. Many people bemoan turning 30...I think this has been one of my best years yet and I can't wait for more to come!Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-5962124409785573062008-11-14T06:11:00.000-08:002008-11-14T06:32:49.323-08:00Busy, busy, busyThis week has been really busy, as usual, and the weekend is not going to be a time of slowing down either. I rather like it because it has actually been helping me to keep on track and keep my feelings under control..which keeps the emotional eating to nil. I love it when I can deal with my stresses and emotions in ways other than with food. it's been great to help take off so much weight this fall. I know that I won't be perfect forever, but I celebrate the times I can do it and they are coming more often and staying longer. I realize 13 lbs isn't a lot to some of you who have lost more than that, but I am pretty excited about it here and it kept me focused on Wednesday when I was faced with junk food and will keep me focused this weekend when things are going to be crazy busy. I know that in the beginning, my metabolism is still adjusting and I recently realized the same factors that help take off the weight so quickly in the beginning also help put it back on quickly. Keeping that in mind helps me to keep going even if I feel like throwing in the towel and having maybe a little extra here, or extra there. Right now, every little bit is hurting me and I need to keep on keeping on and I'll get to where I want to be.Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-63351801042906926722008-11-12T10:52:00.000-08:002008-11-12T11:29:51.054-08:00Wordless Wednesday (with some words)<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5LQVJ4zQn3Qr8KaiGzq7U98T1H-lzBTH32_ye8PPS2wIwA89zBewsAM_tAp2A7S8Ur1C3rSw0igcFW9twVHj1Dq2fHHEd3WMId5W8sO01l1r71fIP1glJthZk8voEQWhQjjFKXMNcUeNo/s1600-h/entire+camera+370.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 238px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5LQVJ4zQn3Qr8KaiGzq7U98T1H-lzBTH32_ye8PPS2wIwA89zBewsAM_tAp2A7S8Ur1C3rSw0igcFW9twVHj1Dq2fHHEd3WMId5W8sO01l1r71fIP1glJthZk8voEQWhQjjFKXMNcUeNo/s320/entire+camera+370.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5267849641453999346" /></a><br /><br /> This is my mom and me taken this summer. My mom means the world to me. She has the biggest heart I've ever known and will do anything for her kids. Just in the last 2 weeks, she's lent me her car while mine was in the shop and tonight she is helping me out by setting up a table of candles that I'm going to sell because I can't get there until after school. <br /><br />Things have been so crazy busy lately, that I haven't had much time to post or get around to other blogs lately. (I'm sorry! I will get to them as soon as I can!) But I have a SV and a NSV for this week to share! I stepped on the scale this morning and it read a beautiful 13 lbs lighter than I started earlier this fall! I haven't noticed too many differences except one...when I went to put on the pair of pants I use when I work on the gazelle...they slid over my big belly just a little easier than normal :) (NSV number 1) NSV number two was lunch today. The hardest lunch I have ever eaten. I ate: 1 hot dog, water, and an apple. not a big deal, I know (esp you non hot dog eaters), but what I didn't add to that was the second hot dog, the chips, and the oreos that were also available that EVERYONE ELSE WAS EATING! that's the hardest part! I know I should be an individual, but sometimes, i want to be like everyone else!! It's hard to remind myself that I'm not, I am trying to lose 100+ lbs and skipping it for now is going to help me in the long run. That number 13 is going to be lucky for me today :)Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-37510306467087918602008-11-05T11:15:00.000-08:002008-11-05T11:31:39.564-08:00November GoalsI started this post earlier today, but it's been a busy day. It's our only full day of school this week. We had yesterday off because of election day and we are a polling place, and our principal decided to give us monday off too. Man, he couldn't have picked two better days to be off! Both days were like 70+ and sunny! It was perfect! Tomorrow and Friday are Parent/Teacher conferences, so we only have half days. I have so few students this year and they all wanted early times to meet with me, so I'll be done early those days. (more time to clean and organize since my room has gotten a bit messy and cluttered) <br /><br />Anyway, off the subject already. I wanted to post my goals here to make sure I stay accountable for them...which is crazy because it addresses two issues I've had for a long time and yet, they seem to have waned a bit. One - I used to hate making goals for myself. I just felt that if I didn't reach them I would feel even worse than I already did, so why put myself through that? Two - I've used "accountability" as an excuse for a really long time. I would read everywhere that you should have someone buddy up with you because that helps and you keep each other accountable, etc, etc. I had myself convinced that I *needed* someone and that I was totally unable to do it on my own and that's why I kept failing over and over again. Of course, that's just a bunch of BS, but at the time I was quite convinced of it. I have taken over control of my actions and responsibility for it. And I am just posting this out there so that if anyone wants to, they can help me be accountable for my goals this month..encourage me or kick my butt if I'm slacking off ;)<br /><br />OK...so there aren't that many, but they'll keep me going. I put up my vision board and on it is a calendar to keep track of the days I work out and what I do on those days. I figure with 30 days in the month, my first goal is to work out for 20 of them. The other goal I have for this month is no chips. I eat a small bag of them like once a day and this month, it's time to go without. <br /><br />Alas..it's time to get my students up from nap time and do some evaluations. Have a great day and a great month!Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-7777323986329582712008-11-03T05:34:00.000-08:002008-11-03T05:48:16.642-08:00Keep your eye on the prize - part 2In the aftermath of the stress-filled week I had a couple weeks ago, I went into a tired, self pity mode. Feeling bad about the choices I had made. Thinking about J, the guy I have a huge crush on and making myself feel worse by believing that there are so few guys like him left and they will be all snatched up because they would never look at me twice because of how I look...etc, etc..you get the idea. The more I thought about him, the more my focus was pulled away from all the good things I am working on and the worse I felt. <br /><br />This weekend I have spent a lot of time praying and pulling my focus back on the lifestyle changes I am making. The result is that I am feeling much better and making better choices. <a href="http://mizfitonline.com">MizFit</a> had a great message today about <a href="http://http://mizfitonline.com/2008/11/03/personal-tagline/#comments">taglines</a> I got to thinking about what mine would be and how I'm living my life now and thought that I would be spending most of the day pondering it, but I think I've already found it: Keep Your Eye On The Prize. As long as I stay focused on what I want, filter out the other bad stuff, I can keep moving forward and do anything! It covers what I want for my physical activity, my spiritual life, everything. I may even change the title and tagline on my blog to reflect my new focus.Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-65835968273368546672008-11-01T08:10:00.000-07:002008-11-01T08:23:47.518-07:00Keep your eye on the prizeOK....the scale has been crazy the past couple of days..fluctuating + and - 5 lbs. Doesn't really matter what the actual number is, the bottom line is that it's higher than before. I funked about it for a little bit, but it didn't last and my resolve is back.<br /><br />So, the problem is: stress kills me. Foodwise anyway. I can hear my brain working overtime now, arguing with myself because I have it finally trained in my head that eating food for comfort is really no comfort at all (although the old me is still acting out that way...but we're working on it). So, I'm thinking that my solution could be to come up with that one (or two) thoughts that are strong enough to hold in my head during those times of stress, and to truly find a better way to comfort myself during those high stress times. Life is not going to be free from stress and ignoring the fact that I don't know how to deal with it is not going to help me get healthy. I've read enough articles on the subject, I have enough information (read a book, go for a walk, etc, etc), it's just a matter of striking the right one for me.<br /><br />It shouldn't be this complicated. :P It wasn't this hard to put the weight on, it should be easy to take it off again..lolSimplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7372243276807098989.post-72508431270451049332008-10-29T11:31:00.000-07:002008-10-29T11:45:30.426-07:00Wordless Wednesday<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgELyoltzPZBETTD7MClwHpTb9e49f_LF8t_NDwcpTZlcWYN1GJX6_FqJ5Z_aOMQQJZKtW6SvVHbzLIQ42o9pDiPNQ7tfgbul6P15C1qJj-6izkiiioT8Z9JXw6OlpC9v4nHP4-4K-GjxXa/s1600-h/alan+patrick.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgELyoltzPZBETTD7MClwHpTb9e49f_LF8t_NDwcpTZlcWYN1GJX6_FqJ5Z_aOMQQJZKtW6SvVHbzLIQ42o9pDiPNQ7tfgbul6P15C1qJj-6izkiiioT8Z9JXw6OlpC9v4nHP4-4K-GjxXa/s320/alan+patrick.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5262648671165861506" /></a><br />The love of my life: my nephew, Alan Patrick. He is one of the main reasons I keep moving my butt...I don't want him to understand how big I am.Simplymoihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.com2